{"id":1853,"date":"2010-06-05T12:20:55","date_gmt":"2010-06-05T16:20:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/?p=1853"},"modified":"2010-06-06T14:45:00","modified_gmt":"2010-06-06T18:45:00","slug":"rites-of-passage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/?p=1853","title":{"rendered":"Rites of Passage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>From my sketchbook. It\u2019s the season of graduations, and weddings, and the perpetual hankie in the hand and lump in the throat.<\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/06\/SidwellGrad.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1854\" title=\"SidwellGrad\" src=\"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/06\/SidwellGrad.jpg\" alt=\"SidwellGrad\" width=\"450\" height=\"415\" srcset=\"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/06\/SidwellGrad.jpg 750w, https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/06\/SidwellGrad-300x276.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">In her room at the prow of the house<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">Where light breaks, and the windows are tossed with linden,<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">My daughter is writing a story.<\/span><\/address>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">I pause in the stairwell, hearing<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">From her shut door a commotion of typewriter-keys<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">Like a chain hauled over a gunwale.<\/span><\/address>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">Young as she is, the stuff<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">Of her life is a great cargo, and some of it heavy:<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">I wish her a lucky passage.<\/span><\/address>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">But now it is she who pauses,<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">As if to reject my thought and its easy figure.<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">A stillness greatens, in which<\/span><\/address>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">The whole house seems to be thinking,<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">And then she is at it again with a bunched clamor<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">Of strokes, and again is silent.<\/span><\/address>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">I remember the dazed starling<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">Which was trapped in that very room, two years ago;<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">How we stole in, lifted a sash<\/span><\/address>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">And retreated, not to affright it;<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">And how for a helpless hour, through the crack of the door,<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">We watched the sleek, wild, dark<\/span><\/address>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">And iridescent creature<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">Batter against the brilliance, drop like a glove<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">To the hard floor, or the desk-top,<\/span><\/address>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">And wait then, humped and bloody,<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">For the wits to try it again; and how our spirits<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">Rose when, suddenly sure,<\/span><\/address>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">It lifted off from a chair-back,<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">Beating a smooth course for the right window<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">And clearing the sill of the world.<\/span><\/address>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">It is always a matter, my darling,<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">Of life or death, as I had forgotten.\u00a0 I wish<\/span><\/address>\n<address><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">What I wished you before, but harder.<\/span><\/address>\n<p><em>\u2014Richard Wilbur<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/06\/CakeRedRoses.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1855\" style=\"vertical-align: middle;\" title=\"CakeRedRoses\" src=\"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/06\/CakeRedRoses.png\" alt=\"CakeRedRoses\" width=\"125\" height=\"113\" \/><\/a>Jude<\/p>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: 'ITC Galliard', 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; 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It\u2019s the season of graduations, and weddings, and the perpetual hankie in the hand and lump in the throat. In her room at the prow of the house Where light breaks, and the windows are tossed with linden, My daughter is writing a story. I pause in the stairwell, hearing From her<a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/?p=1853\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[47,23,17,19,3],"class_list":["post-1853","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-sketchbook","tag-dc","tag-festival","tag-penink","tag-poem","tag-watercolor"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1853","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1853"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1853\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1859,"href":"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1853\/revisions\/1859"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1853"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1853"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1853"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}