{"id":6933,"date":"2013-12-23T17:05:19","date_gmt":"2013-12-23T22:05:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/?p=6933"},"modified":"2013-12-23T17:05:19","modified_gmt":"2013-12-23T22:05:19","slug":"into-enchantment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/?p=6933","title":{"rendered":"Into Enchantment"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>How did our baby girl come to be FIFTEEN? Yet here she stands, strong, quick-witted, lovely, and nearly my height; by spring she\u2019ll be taller than I.<\/p>\n<p>For her birthday today I post a sketch made on a summertime bike ride. I see it now symbolically, as her gazing into her future: shining, expansive, full of promise. (I hope that doesn\u2019t mean her parents are the two old stumps on the riverbank.) Here also is a tender poem by Mark Jarman, \u201cPrayer for our Daughters.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><i><a href=\"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/EBikingRiver.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-6934\" alt=\"EBikingRiver\" src=\"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/EBikingRiver.jpg\" width=\"450\" height=\"367\" srcset=\"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/EBikingRiver.jpg 750w, https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/EBikingRiver-300x244.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a>\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n<p>May they never be lonely at parties<br \/>\nOr wait for mail from people they haven\u2019t written<br \/>\nOr still in middle age ask God for favors<br \/>\nOr forbid their children things they were never forbidden.<\/p>\n<p>May hatred be like a habit they never developed<br \/>\nAnd can\u2019t see the point of, like gambling or heavy drinking.<br \/>\nIf they forget themselves, may it be in music<br \/>\nOr the kind of prayer that makes a garden of thinking.<\/p>\n<p>May they enter the coming century<br \/>\nLike swans under a bridge into enchantment<br \/>\nAnd take with them enough of this century<br \/>\nTo assure their grandchildren it really happened.<\/p>\n<p>May they find a place to love, without nostalgia<br \/>\nFor some place else that they can never go back to.<br \/>\nAnd may they find themselves, as we have found them,<br \/>\nComplete at each stage of their lives, each part they add to.<\/p>\n<p>May they be themselves, long after we\u2019ve stopped watching.<br \/>\nMay they return from every kind of suffering<br \/>\n(Except the last, which doesn\u2019t bear repeating)<br \/>\nAnd be themselves again, both blessed and blessing.<br \/>\n<em><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2014Mark Jarman<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/CakeDancer2.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-6935\" style=\"vertical-align: middle;\" alt=\"CakeDancer2\" src=\"https:\/\/eachdayisacelebration.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/CakeDancer2.png\" width=\"150\" height=\"189\" \/><\/a>Eileen<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How did our baby girl come to be FIFTEEN? Yet here she stands, strong, quick-witted, lovely, and nearly my height; by spring she\u2019ll be taller than I. For her birthday today I post a sketch made on a summertime bike ride. 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